Love and Career.. can we just combine together ?? Why life have to separate between love and career?? Why we need to make decision for our life? Why we cannot just get the answer from the God? Parents always give us the best, the good advice and what is good for us. However, it doesn't mean we will accept their advice. I like what I am doing now.. but parents always worry and not really agree of what I am doing now. They asked me to go back to Australia, the reason is because I have a warm bed, fixed salary and savings for myself.... Things happened for a reason and I don't really know what will be the best choice for myself now...
Love & Career..... Men vs Woman
As a Man, I would says Career is important to you. At least when you hit 30,40 or 50 there are girls out there for you. When you get older, your value is getting higher. Why?? Number one, Your financial stable, Number two, you are more mature, Number three, loyal to your loved one, Number four, no more energy to fight with your girl and Number five, you had enough in your Night life. Older guy can choose their loved ones, young ones and pretty ones. Therefore, I always advice my junior or even senior that is not hitting 30. Don't give up your Career because of Love or you just simply quit your job with no reason. Ages 20-30, this period is your fighting moment, you have to fight for your life so that your future will be Brighter and your future wifey can have a comfort zone.
As a Woman, Love is always the sweetest thing to cheer them up. Well, if Love and Career put it together, How to choose? Especially when we hit 30,40,50 guys will slowly runaway from us. Why they would choose old lady to be their gf/wifey?? People always said when you are 30, you are Puma, when you are 40 you are Cougar, when you are 50, you are Tiger, haha! The older they are, the younger boys they can get. I believe majority man who hit 20-25 will prefer older woman, I reckon older woman can teach them a lot of thing. Life experience and mentality.
From the comparison, we can tell that When Guys are getting older, they will slowly from Career turn into Love sight! Whereas, Girls when they are getting older, they will choose Career.Why? Old Lady will keep savings for their future spend!
Now, Dilemma, age like me 27 this year, what is the best thing for myself? Currently I active in this industry but my visa is expired within 4 months. I am struggling. Woman like me always change my mind. Sometime I have thought of pack up my stuff and leave the country, I can get my love "happily ever after". Sometime, I cannot be bothered. I feel like Giving up everything in Australia and start from Zero in KL.. Hmm.. why I cannot just take both ways?? I just feel too tired of asking opinion from friends. I know everyone says the same... Its depends on what I really want, If I know what I want.. I won't be sitting here and write my blog!!
Just two words for myself.. Good Luck!!! Annabelle Kong!!!
How long to go... to make up my mind??? I doubt it!
